The Language of Empowerment: How the Words You Repeat Build Your Life
The sentences you repeat are not describing your life. They are instructing it. Here is the practice I use to choose them on purpose.
The sentences you repeat are not describing your life. They are instructing it. Here is the practice I use to choose them on purpose.
There’s a pattern I keep seeing: in the companies I’ve worked for, in the products I’ve helped build, and honestly, in my own life. We find a new technology and then go looking for a place to put it. We’ve…
We went to my in-laws’ for Sunday lunch a few weeks ago. My mother-in-law offered me a few pillows she wasn’t using anymore, and I took them home without thinking much of it. The next Sunday, she came over and…
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